Last night I was having a nice chat with my friend Jemmie when someone entered the chatroom and starting asking for an assignment. We explained that we were just gurls, not Mistresses. I know some sissies like to switch and dom each other, but I’m not one of those. I leave the assignments to the professionals. I encouraged this girl to phone one of the Mistresses on the site we were at, but that was not good enough for her. When she kept pushing for an assignment, I assigned her to call a Mistress and ask for an assignment. She gave some kind of creepy reply and left.
Is it possible for the same person to be a sub and be pushy? Unfortunately, the answer is yes. I have met many of these types in sissy chatrooms. If a Mistress is there, they will try to occupy all her attention, often annoying her and souring the experience for everyone there. If there is no Mistress, the pushy sub will try to find a cybersex partner, frequently announcing how bored they are if anyone wants to discuss a nonsexual topic.
This is why the good Lord installed an Ignore button in chatrooms. I no longer have the slightest hesitation to use this when someone is annoying me. It’s one of the secrets to keeping my sunshiney disposition. 🙂